Is it inappropriate to tell a bm to not be a part of your wedding because they are causing too much drama, or should you suck it up and let them stay, and hope everything goes ok? One of my bms has been pissy almost since the begining. She threw a fit over what size dress she needed, and didn't initially want to pay the extra $30 for the plus size. Then (and this is the abreviated version) she got angry over some Facebook posts (not related to the wedding) and decided that our friendship was on the line, and wanted to bow out of the wedding. After some nasty emails we talked last Wednesday, and I thought we reached some common ground. She wanted to stay part of the wedding, but I told her I would like to see things went between us and we could revisit it in the near future. Well yesterday she sends me an email wanting to know if I had made a decision. She said since she bought the dress, she should be in the wedding. And that if she was in the wedding would dicate if she would even go. I have know this girl since I was I child and I don't know how to handle this. HELP!!!