I just recently found out that my FI's parents will not be contributing ANY money towards the wedding and I am SO shocked. A few years ago my FI's sister got married, and their parents paid for everything (which was an excess of $50K). The grooms side did not put any money in. And I remember my FMIL going off for hours about how rude she thought it was. Hypocrite? When I first found out that they werent putting anything in I was surprised, but then thought maybe they are just traditional and will only pay for the honeymoon and rehearsal dinner. Then when I found out they werent paying for the honeymoon I flipped out. My parents are paying for EVERYTHING, including my FI's entire side of the family to attend and I refuse to ask them to pay for our honeymoon. And I am not going to take out a credit card in order to pay for it ourselves. My FI wants to talk to her about it but is not sure how to approach it...??