My aunt is my MoH. My only attendant. And about 900 miles away. I haven't been able to get ahold of her for over 3 weeks.
she's still alive, I talk to my cousin almost daily, but for some reason, she won't talk to me. No clue whatsoever.
I don't know when she'll be down here, if she got her dress, or what she thinks about the flowers/ hairstyles/ anything else that I need her opinions on. It's ridiculously frustrating and I've had a few meltdowns that required chocolate consolation many a hugs and "it'll be ok" from the fiance.
I love her to death and really, really want her to be there with me, but I'm starting to think she might just need to come as a guest because this is too stressful. Is it ok to ask someone else to take her place? Fiance and I decided on one attendant each, so there were a few friends who didn't "make the cut"; would it be acceptable to ask one of them to step up since Aunty dearest is flaking out? Any ideas or advice is appreciated at this point, I'm going bonkers here... AHHGGGGRRGHGGGG! >.<