Our son got engaged to a wonderful lady a few weeks ago. Our future daughter in law is a sweetheart and is including me in the plans, which makes me very happy! My problem is that there is not a lot of information for the mother of the groom out there....all the info I find is for the bride / mother of the bride (it's almost as if all wedding sites / planners / etc forget that the groom HAS a mom!). What's up with that? We want to be involved too! Several years ago my brother was planning his wedding and mom was shopping for a dress. The saleswoman told mom that the groom's mom's job was to wear beige, stand in the corner and keep her mouth shut....! Really?