Ok so i need to know if Im being bridezilla or I have the right to be upset? My rehearsal dinner was yesterday and my maid of honor was a no show. Two weeks ago when the rehearsal dinner was being planned she mentioned that her boyfriend's cousin was graduating from high school and that he wasn't going to be able t make it. i told her that that was fine since he's not in the wedding or anything. Well then later on she made a big deal about how everyone else was gonna be bringing their significant other and she was going to be the odd ball out so she was going to make him come and miss the graduation. Not once did she mention that she was going it was the opposite until yesterday morning she was still telling me that she was not going to the "Stupid Graduation" and how she hates graduations anyway. So its time for rehearsal and we do a walk through one time. Then the best man request the we should do it again so everyone can do it perfect on the day of the wedding and she responds "i already know my part Im leaving" in front of everyone! I was shocked It really came out of no where. So later on she just texts me saying im sorry but i had to go to the graduation. So i told her how disappointed I was because I felt like she lied to me and pulled a stunt on me in front of everyone so I couldnt say anything and that if she would of been just a bm then I wouldn't care but she is the mo and I really expected her to be there. She then replied that if I had plans she would understand a graduation is a once in a life time and her bf didn't want her to miss it. so m i wrong for being upset?