I really have no one that I am close enough to to even fathom asking one of my girl friends to be my moh. I always thought my sister would be my number one choice but we have been drifting apart the past few years, plus she likes everything to be about her so I'm not sure if she would be the best choice. I mean I love my sister but I don't think I feel close enough to trust her with such a big job. I have recently been thinking about having my mom be my moh but every time I bring it up someone, my bf, friends, always tell me that a mom shouldn't be my moh. I am just so confused on what to do...I mean we have a while until the wedding but I am already torn at what to do. Any advice? Can the mother of the bride be the maid of honor?