I recently got engaged and already everyone is asking a million questions. Most of all one of my best friends has always assumed she would be the MOH. We have been friends since college and I will of course have her in the bridal party. My MOH is a best friend from high school and will forever be my friend despite anything we go through. I considered doing a Matron of Honor and a Maid of Honor but I really want my best friend from highschool by my side to have the responsibility and spotlight. We have shared all our special occasions (ie. I was her MOH, I am the godmother of her son) and we have been planning this for a long time.
In short, how do I tell my friend that she is not the MOH? Do I bite the bullet and just go with both?
Please help - I am so lost.