My FSIL has been really bringing me down lately. Some backround info: She recently got married in august and I was her MOH. She is also one of my bridesmaids. Today, she came over my apartment to visit her brother while I was at class. He decided to show her the wedding bands. She started making fun of my wedding band saying that it won't look good with my engagement ring and that the diamonds would be too much. She continued on about how she only spent three hundred dollars on her ring and would never spent as much as i did. He let that go because he just did not want to fight with her. After a little while he asked her if she wanted to see more of our engagement photos, so he longed on to the website to show her. She began criticizing all of our photos saying how terrible our photographer was and how we did not look good at all. She said that she didnt like the pic we had posted on facebook either. At this point my fiance had enough. So he asked her to stop making fun of them and that she was hurting his feelings. She said that she did not understand why his feelings would be hurt, because she was a professional photographer and just giving her opinion. She takes photos in a retail store with a camera that does everything for her and has never learned about taking photos professionally. He asked her to leave becuase she just stood by what she was saying and would not apologize. This is not the first time she has acted like this. Previously, she has made comments like, "i would never spend as much money on a wedding as you guys or have a wedding this big." she had an intimate wedding of like 20 ppl. Which is fine and i never knocked her for any of her choices. When we went shopping for bridesmaids dresses she did not like anything any of the bridesmaids dresses and i eventually had to give up trying to make her happy and settle for one she didnt absolutely hate. I just dont know how to handle this situation...i hate confrontation. Im not saying Im perfect, but not once did I say anything negative about what she was doing for her wedding, becuase it was her wedding and my job to support her. Thanks for reading!