So I have six sisters, and I would love them all to stand up for me...except one. We are on civil terms at BEST. She is immature and a pain to be around in general, and she has a bad history with me and my fiance both. I do not like her, and I do not want her in my wedding.
That said, she is still my sister, and I do still want the rest of my sisters to stand up. I know it would be a relationship-ending move to exclude her. Personally, I don't care that much; however, I am pretty sure it would break my parents' hearts to see a falling out of that magnitude between two of their kids. I am pretty sure that no matter how much I want to exclude her from my side of the wedding party no one in my family will see that from my POV and will just hate me if I do it. So...long story short, I feel like I have to include her.
However, there is the possibility that I just have none of my sisters in my WP at all and just have my 2 closest friends (I will be having them anyway, with or without my sisters). This is just so confusing, and on top of that I am having so much trouble choosing a MOH. I know which sister I want, but it doesn't follow the "oldest sibling" tradition, so I'm afraid it will offend my oldest sister. And then again, there's the possibility of just choosing my closest friend so I don't offend any sisters.
What should I do? I haven't asked anyone yet, since my wedding is still a ways away, but I need to start thinking about dress shopping soon.