Moms and Maids

Daughter MOH?

I have 2 children from a previous marriage. My daughter will be 18 by the time I get married and my son will be 20. I would really like to ask my daughter to be my MOH, but I don't want to hurt my son's feelings. How do I accomplish this? P.S. my fianc son will be the best man.

Re: Daughter MOH?

  • NYCMercedesNYCMercedes BOS, NYC, DC. Forever a city girl member
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    Your daughter can be your MOH and your son can either, or both, A. Stand on your side as a bridesman, or B. Walk you down the aisle.
  • AddieCakeAddieCake Beyond the Wall member
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    Ditto Mercedes. There's no reason your son can't stand with you as well, and walking you down the aisle would also be very sweet. 
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  • AJuliaNJAJuliaNJ member
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    edited February 2013
    Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials!

    At my mother's second wedding, I was MOH and my brother was a groomsman. Same situation. I think at 20 your son is old enough to understand the bride picks the MOH and the groom picks the BM. 

    Here are some ways you can make your son feel special:
    -have him as a groomsman 
    -list him in the program as "son of the bride"
    -let him do a reading or make a speech if he wants
    -you could make him your man of honor and have him stand on your side  
    -he could walk you down the aisle. if your dad is walking you down the aisle, maybe both of them could?
  • All three of my kids are standing with me, and I gave all three honor titles. My daughters are 15 and 17 and are my maids of honor. My son is 20 and is my best dude. There's no reson they both can't stand with you and both can't be "special" .
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  • Ask him to walk you down the aisle.
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  • My daughter is my MoH and my son is a groomsman. They are both walking me down the aisle.
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