hi, i git engaged 6 months ago, much flourish and excitement, my bf was automatically asked to be maid of honour, but since then she has got herself a fella, and i have seen her twice. i also don't like her new fella or the influence i hear he is having on her (drugs etc). i don't want to upset her, but she is not even aware that we have set a date, i can't get hold of her, she just pops up every now and then! what am i gonna do?????