So I asked my best friend to be a bridesmaid in my wedding. She isn't however the MOH. I feel that I have been a very easy bride. I didn't care what dress they got, I don't case what they do with their hair or what jewelry they wear. However, I love shoes and I want them to wear all the same shoes. It started out as TOMS but she complained about them and tried to change it to Converse. So I changed it to some nice nude heels and now she is complaining again. I have given her other things to do and she keeps trying to get involved in everything else. How do I tell her to stay out of it without sounding like a complete bridezilla?