Remember that movie Bride Wars? I used to be good friends with this girl. Wayyyyy before we got engaged, we talked about having our wedding at Botanical Garn dens. She got engaged in DEC 2009. She was having a financial hardship and could not afford the gardens but had it on the beach instead. Mind you stopped calling me and felt she was to good to talk to me. Fast forward July 2010, I get engaged and told her. She did a dry "congratulations". Months later she texted me and asked me where I was having my wedding. I said, "Botanical Gardens". She was calling my phone and leaving me messages trying to talk me out of doing it. She was saying, "it is to expensive, you have to do this and do that". I seem to think she is mad because I got something I wanted versus settled for.