My mom has never been that interested in my life, unless its to criticise me. So I've kind of kept things about our wedding from her. Now she's getting mad and putting me on guilt trips about "shutting her out." I've tried. I got engaged on December 17, 2011 and wanted to go dress shopping with you, my sister (MOH) and my best friend. We had a limited time to go since my best friend was leaving 2 days after Christmas. She wouldn't tell me any days she could go. So we went without her. Not thinking I would buy anything that day, but I found the perfect dress. They wouldn't hold it, so it was buy it then or risk losing it. So I bought it. I got yelled at. So, I've invited her to go with us in May to our planning session at our venue.
My maid of honor is a whole other story. She's almost 17 years old, so she's young. But she works, goes to school, and dances 24/7. She never makes time for me. Or anyone but herself and her boyfriend. She tells me I have to tell her a week or two in advance to do anything at all with her. Then gets mad at me when I do something wedding related without her. I shouldn't need to make an appointment with my own sister to do anything with her. And I've tried that too. But she always has plans.
Another big factor is that i'm moving to San Diego, CA on February 16. Across the country. 2500 miles. So I'm trying to get a lot of the wedding stuff planned before I leave. So I'm on a time limit but no one seems to care. So I'm doing everything by myself, which I don't mind, it's just the fact that I'm getting yelled at and people are angry with me. This is supposed to be a happy time, but it's stressing me out more than wedding planning is supposed to. Any advice?