I'm sixteen and my dad who's almost 40 is marrying a 28 year old and to save money they're having me plan the wedding. Its really hard since I don't like the soon to be "Step-Mom". Other than that, I don't mind helping, I find it really exciting but their demands are ridiculous. They want a blue and black Gothic themed wedding.. On the beach?! It's so confusing. Do you have any tips on what I should do?