My fiance and I have been talking about getting married [and, for this matter, have been engaged] for quite some time now. However, when the subject of marriage comes up around my mother, she refuses to listen. She claims that, if I get married before graduating college, I will not finish college. Not might not, will not. Yes, we are both young [I'm 20 and he's 18], and I have read through many boards to help deal with comments people make about that, but it's what we want. This wasn't a hasty decision; we're not rushing a wedding because I'm pregnant or anything. We just feel that we are ready to get married, and have talked a lot about how to handle being married and in college at the same time.
[To give some more information about her, she won't listen to anything that may involve my own idea, not even what four year school I want to attend after graduating from community college. If it's not her idea, she will never be supportive.]
At this point, I really don't know what to do. I've tried just telling her, I've tried sitting her down to talk. I don't know what else is left, and I certainly don't want to try again, just dropping it on her at the last second. I need help..