I'm a young bride-to-be, so a lot of people are telling me that i'm too young. I believe its not about age.. its about making the marriage work. The people that are telling me are our co-workers (me and my FI work together) and a few aquatiences.
None of their opinion matters to me because I know i have found the one and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. My entire family is very supportive and excited about the wedding (5 months to go!!!!! :])
All my close friends as well are helping me plan, and even a best friend of mine that I lost contact with for a year, because of family issues, has been helping me out A LOT and we've become very close again.
But my "best friend" that i've lived with for the past year.. absolutley HATES my FI and just can't seem to get to know him, because she refuses to. He is the greatest man i've ever met and shows me that he loves me and wants to be with me all the time. She thinks that me getting married to him is the worst idea ever. She specifically told me that she thinks its "all going to crash down in the end" (great support huh?) and also she says she says she "trys" to help me with the wedding, but she just can't get herself to.. because she hates the idea. I don't talk with her about ANY of the planning ideas, not only because she seems so uninterested, but i just can't stand her rude comments and her lack of interest. She's definatley distanced herself away from me and i have done the same.. it's very unfortunate because we live together, and things have become intense. My FI also lives with us, and i know that has to do with a lot, but she can't even show any support.
I want her to be a BM because she is one of my closest friends (she's not being concidered for a MOH) but i don't think i should because of her lack of help and her lack of wanting ANY OF THIS. My grandmother whom i'm very close to and who is helping me plan a lot.. says i really shouldnt allow this ungrateful jealousy to be in my wedding. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!?!?!?!? I wouldn't want to ask her to not be a BM or kick her out because we probably would lose all of our connection..