My mom and I have a weird relationship. We get along pretty well but we are definitely not close. I am closer to my FMIL than I am to my own mom. I am going wedding dress shopping tonight! (YAY!!!!) The only thing is I didn't invite my FMIL because I knew it would bother my mom. (She would feel like it was taking something away from her being the Mother of the Bride.) Now that the time is here I am really wishing my FMIL was coming with us. I don't know if I made the right decision or not by not inviting my FMIL but either way its too late now. What I am wondering is would it be okay to bring my FMIL on a separate day and show her the dress I found (if I even find one tonight) or would that be rude because I didn't invite her the first time?