Gift for Bridesmaids and reader??

kristabaker

Hi everyone,

My future sister-in-law is going to be doing a reading at my wedding. She will be with myself and the bridesmaids while we get ready. Should I get her the same gift as my bridesmaids? Or something similar? I don't want her to feel left out, but I also want my bridesmaids to feel special.

Thanks

em01092

I agree, it doesn't have to be exactly what you got your BMs. Get her something you know she will like, as if you were shopping for her birthday. This is a good rule of thumb for your BMs anyway/as well. 

Your BMs shouldn't feel less special if they get the same or a similar gift as your reader. If you are that worried about it, simply do gifts in private, rather than at the RD (what a lot of people do- we are giving ours privately).