I have a best friend from medical school who was with me when my fiance and I first met and started dating and she knows our early history very well. We went off to different residencies and we both did not do a good job at keeping in touch over the past few years but I really want to ask her to be a bridesmaid. She lives in another state, has a new baby but is planning on coming to the wedding. I am also planning on buying the bridesmaid dresses for everyone.
I went to her wedding but I was not in the bridal party and I was not at all offended since I did not even know her husband and I was just happy to be there.
Do you think it is weird if someone else already got married and you weren't in their bridal party?
How do I ask someone I don't talk to very often? How do I tactfully offer to pay for the bridesmaid dresses?
The wedding is a little over four months away and I have been PROCRASTINATING!!!
I am so confused and stressed out and I guess afraid of rejection, too ha ha!