This is partially a vent, but also I need advice
Since I got engaged I feel like my mother has just been kinda "ehh" about things. That's the best way I can think to describe her attitude. We went venue shopping and she didn't really have anything to say to me or questions to ask them. She told me later that it was all kind of overwhelming, which I totally understand. But since then we've done other things, and she is still the same way. They are helping pay for parts of the wedding (venue and food, i'm paying for some other parts, right now the dress and paper products) and I want her to be involved, but every time we hang to discuss wedding stuff I get kinda depressed that she doesn't seem happy or excited. I've always been a daddy's girl, but my mom and I have never had any problems. We are going to go shopping for a wedding dress this weekend, and I'm worried that she'll still be very passive about it, which will kinda ruin the experience.
I know I have this very idealic view of the wedding where my mom and I bond so much over all the planning stuff, but it's just sad to me that she seems to care more about her puppy than about helping me.
Do you think I should sit her down and voice my worries? I'm hoping this weekend will be different and the dress will bring out her excitement or something, but if not, do I talk to her later about it?
Thanks for being my psychologists!