Okay so I just asked all my girls a couple weekends ago, and I kind of wanted to keep it a smaller wedding party but none-the-less I'm going to have five girls standing beside me. Now the problem is obviously I have to cut it off somewhere, so there's naturally some friends that aren't going to be BMs.
However, one of the girls that I didn't pick I feel might be a little angry about this. And I don't want to sound like a b*tch or anything but because of how this one girl is.. not like inappropriate or anything but she just might not be the most reliable person, a lot of people (fiance, brother and parents) gave me input that they prefer I not pick her, and I was on the fence about picking her anyways.
So my question is, should I just hope that she be respectful of who I pick and not say anything to me, or should I say something to her about it first? Or if I wait and she does end up saying something to me about it...what should I say?
Any help would be appreciated...Thx