I selected my MOH because she has been a great friend to me over the past few years and knows my fiance the best out of my friends. She has been very supportive of our relationship. But she is being ridiculous about the dress size! She is small, regularly a size 4 dress but because of her bust size the dress size suggested by Alfred Angelo is size 8. She is insisting she can't possibly that size and it is way too large because she likes things fitted and she worries it won't be able to be taken in enough. I ordered an 8 anyway - not the 4 she wanted - to be sure it would fit and not be stuck with a too-small dress. But she is now obsessing about the dress size (everyone knows they run bigger than in real life - I have been in seven weddings and now my own. And my wedding dress is two sizes larger than my pant size). But she won't let it go, despite me showing her the size chart. I should mentioned I am in my mid-30s, she is in her late 40s, so old enough that it doesn't seem like vanity would be an issue. But as it turns out, has never been in a wedding.
As a side note, another attendant now may pull out because she and her husband are trying to get pregnant and if they are successful any time soon she won't fit into the already-ordered dress so I am fretting about the apparent self-centeredness rearing its head in my MOH and fear the "and then there were none" and I won't have any attendants!
I guess my question is how can I stop this MOH obsession from upsetting me and make me regret my decision, when we still have nearly 10 months to go?