So, a little background, my FI and I have been together for almost 9 years. So I have known his family for almost as long. For the most part I get along with them very well, the occasional "disagreement", but nothing major. We have 2 children, my son is 10 and my daughter is 2. (My son is from a previous relationship, and my daughter is "ours"). So before my daughter was born I can't really remember ever having an issue with FMIL, she is very... free spirited, and she talks ALOT, but it never really seemed to bother me. My FI has 2 brother, so my FMIL was super excited when we had a girl, of course! Shortly after she was born, (like within days) she seemed to really start to get under my skin, almost like she is trying to throw little digs in whenever given the chance, ignore things that my FI and I requested in regards to the kids, tell me how to take care of my daughter (like it was my 1st child, not to mention I am the oldest of 5 girls!!) Most recently, I invited her to go dress shopping with me, I found my dress (first trip, YAY!!) and during that time we were shopping she was fine, involved and supportive, except she seemed more interested in looking for flower girl dresses for my daughter... didn't think much of it at the time. I have since took my daughter shopping to try on dresses, (which she does look ABSOLUTELY adorable!!! ) and when I show her the pictures she keeps telling me, "watch out, she is gonna steal your thunder"!! Now if she had just said it once, maybe even twice... but it has been atleast 5 times in the last month! I am not a bridezilla by any means, but its really starting to get bother me... What bride wants to be told repetitively that you are going to be out-shined on YOUR day. Of course my daughter is going to look amazing, and everyone is going to awww over her, but I feel like she is trying to throw a subtle "dig"... I am so lost as to how to handle the situation, I think if I were to talk to her she would get super offensive and make it all about her...