During the rehearsal dinner, I would like to spend a little time thanking each of my BM's and introduce them to everyone (also at which point, I will give them their gifts). This way they get a little time in the spotlight as well.
The problem is, 2 of the 4 aren't really contributing much to the wedding. I asked them because they are my FI's sister and sister-in-law and I wanted them to be included. They don't live here, aren't coming to my bachelorette party, will more then likely not be at my shower, and can't afford to help contribute to either of these things. One of them is only 16, the other just had a baby and FI's mom is actually buying both of their dresses.
I don't want to spend as much on their gifts as my other two girls (who do live here and will be involved in everything), and I don't really know what to say when I get up and say "thank you for everything" when they really haven't done anything.
How should I handle this?
BFP #1: 5/20/12 ~ EDD: 2/20/13 ~ Betas at 221: 5/24/12 ~ Betas at 917: 5/29/12 ~ M/C: 5/29/12
BFP #2: 10/17/12 (13dpo) ~ EDD: 6/29/13
Beta #1 @ 2164: 10/22/12 ~ 1st u/s: 10/26/12 = empty ute
Beta #2 @ 7610: 10/26/12 ~ 2nd u/s: 10/30/12 = measuring at 5w6d
3rd u/s: 11/5/12 = HB of 150 ~ 4th u/s: 11/27/12 = perfect wiggly LO!
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