I'm the bride. My mom is paying for the whole wedding. My wedding is in 8 days and I just found out thatmy guest list has doubled since I sent out invites. she keeps inviting people to my wedding!!! my fi and i decided that we were only going to invite about 60 people. We had to fight with my mom about this, she thinks I'm doing something horrible to her by not allowing her to invite all these people. dmy fi wanted to go to vegas or something so i thought we had made a prtty good deal. little did i know that my mother had printed invites and sent them out to people i havent seen in ten years . i had cut my list of friends back so i could invite herr whole family. now this wedding has 120 people and i didnt even get a say on who was invited. some of my good friends didnt make the cut. my fi only ivited 20 people and since they are OOT guests only 15 can come. his family is biggerr than mine and his mom thinks there are only 60 guests still. My mom doesnt respect us or our decision!!!!!! im pulling my hair out trying to figure out how to break the news to my FMIL. Any suggestions?