So I don't want to sound picky, but I need a little advice. I can't stand my FMIL. It's not that she's a b**ch or anything but she just gets on my last nerve. When ever she starts talking I feel my teeth starting to grind. When we went to find my wedding dress she kept making comments that just made no sense. She comes up with the most random stuff that has nothing to do with anything anyone is talking about and I find myself just staring at her like shes stupid. she kept offering me her water and I kept making excuses why I wouldn't drink after her. I have only been in her house once and that's been since me and my FI have been engaged. She's a horder! There is like seven cats running around everywhere popping out oh piles of crap. I don't hate cats but there was cat hair caked up under the fridge and in the corners and it smelled like pee. We plan on having children and I don't know how I would tell her I don't ever want my kids to set foot in her house. I've tried to just grin and bare it and be nice but I find myself getting more and more fustrated with her everytime I see her. Have any of you had the same problem or any advice for me?