I've had this friend since I was in middle school. We were always very close and talked about our weddings many times. I always thought she would be standing right next to me when I got married. In April she and I got in a huge fight and didn't talk for at least a month. At that time she claimed that my then boyfriend (now fiance) had "changed me for the worse". No one else had said that. We sort of talked on and off throughout June, but nothing was fixed. I told her that I knew there was a purposal on the way and she said, "Cool". My fiance and I were engaged in July and rather than picking who I would call after my mom I sent a mas text out. She seemed excited, but said later that she always thought I would call and tell her that stuff. About a month after we were engaged she came to me with some fears about her health and we began talking again. I still feel like things aren't totally fixed with us, but are getting better. I have picked out 3 of my 4 bridesmaids and I sort of want her to be my forth. At the same time I have this friend at work who I'm getting really close to and has talked to me about the wedding and my fiance and I a lot. I really feel like my other 3 bridesmaids will contunue being friends with me long after my wedding, but I'm not sure which girl to pick for my 4th. Any advice? Should I just push through the drama and stick with the girl who has always been with me, or the one who is starting to be there?