Okay,
1. I know I havent posted here much (if at all) but I lurk..once in awhile
2. Im getting married (yay!) on May 4th of next year
3. (the actual point) I have a bridesmaid who is insistant on going to a specific place to get her hair done for the wedding. I would prefer us to all go to the same place so our hair is similar (not all the same but not completely different) I looked at pictures on the salons facebook page, and do not like anything about the updos shown. So I would prefer us to go to a different location, that I trust to do a great job. I dont want to come off as the bridezilla through telling her that we will not be using her preffered salons activities..so basically, what do I do? do I tell her what I want and hope i dont come off rude, or just let it go and let her go where she wants while the rest of us go to the other place and hope for the best?