My mother decided before we had the dress (which I still don't have) that she would be making me a headband. I don't mind, in fact I really like the way it looks. I've decided since my mom didn't really have her mom for her wedding (my grandma was dealing with the serious illness of my grandfather at the time), whatever she wants to do I'll just let her. My question is, how do I do my hair? I always wanted it up, but I worry that will look weird with a headband. Suggestions?