So i am in a situation where I have to be friends with my Fiance's bestfriend's wife. His best friend is one of our groomsmen. So pretty much every time the guys hang out, we are pretty much around each other or always go to social functions. And on top of that, her and I work together and so we see each other a lot.
I feel like she is always criticizing me and puts down my wedding ideas. Recently she went overboard by telling me that even though my wedding will be in the Spring, i shouldn't have short or tea length bridesmaids dresses because some of the girls have thick legs and it might be a distraction away from me, the bride. She said in her opinion floor length is more formal and appealing. I went off the deep end because i was very insulted and basically feel like she called my bridesmaids fat. I feel like appearances are all that matter with her and that was very shallow. I don't think my guests will be judging my friends legs. I am so mad she said this.