So i'm completley torn, i am as close to being pure white as i can be-not by choice. I don't tan natually, i just turn red and then white agian. I don't exactly have the snow white skin, its kinda red blotchy, and i do have a somewhat farmers tan. Now the issue is i'm getting married 10/29/11, i really wanted to try a spray tan, but of course i'm scared and self conscious. I worry that i'll be orange, or worse! i thought by testing it out abit early(this week) i could see how it looks. But my future sister in law(married to my fiance's brother) said that its not a good idea becuase she had too many bad experiances. She literally told me that the farmers tan i have will look better than being orange....this quickly turned into me asking, wait-is she purposly telling me not to try and look my best? I'm really confused what todo-any suggestions for spray tan vigians? is natual the best? am i worrying to much about future family? I'm just at a lost and i was hoping other brides could help me out.