So fi and I played with he wedding party simulation and we changed his vest to red. Also we decided to go on a mini moon instead of the 7 day cruise. My kids are my world and I wouldn't enjoy myself after a few days. Also, My fi is not comfortable with "burdening" my mom with 3 kids for a week. I just ordered the flower girls dresses. I scheduled a few bm dress appointments for this Saturday. Hopefully we will be able to find a dress! (fingers crossed)