I had my trial hair appointment today. I brought in a few pictures of what I liked and she did a pretty close job of it. I left feeling pretty happy and satisfied...2 hours later I had text it to my mom, sisters and bridesmaids to get their opinions and if they didn't like it what would they change?
Mom, sisters and 2 BM loved it but a 3rd bridesmaid said all she can see is 1980's or Little House on the Prarie and she hated the headpiece on the side...Hmph, now I am UNSURE!!!!!!!
I want to look elegant, graceful and neither of the two above things NOR do I want to look like a 16 year old headed to the prom...

Note its really loose and frizzy because it was just a trial. I already know I want it a bit tighter/pulled in on the sides and less "curl" and more "wave".
What would you change???
Thank you in advance!!!