I've never been close with my dad (parents divorced when I was 3, remarried each other when I was 10 and divorced again when I was 17). We are on shaky speaking terms, sometimes going months (once a year) without talking. He was rude to my fiance when we first started dating but has since started making an effort to be nice. My mom and stepdad are paying for the wedding and I've asked my mom to walk me down the aisle (even though I'm still inviting my dad and stepmom). How should I go about telling him I don't want him walking me down? Or since he's making an effort now, should I ask him to walk me with my mom? They can hardly be around each other, so I'm kind of worried, and there's a looming child support battle for my little brothers.
Do I forgive my dad and have both parents walk me? Do I have to exclusively talk to him about this?