What's everyone's thoughts on letting the groom see the bride before the ceremony? I would love to get all the pictures out of the way beforehand so we can actually enjoy the wedding but I'm nervous about letting him see me before. I wanted that initial shock when he first sees me when those doors open but I'm not sure if it's really worth it. People are talking about a "first look" before the wedding with just us and the photographer. What's everyone's thoughts on that?