My mom and aunts really want me to force my fiance to ask my male cousins to be groomsmen. we've told my mom on MANY occassions that he doesnt feel comfortable with this because they don't spend any time with me unless I'm going to visit them. They missed a few important things (my graduation 21st birthday ect) and have repeatedly ignored invites from my fiance and I to come visit. Everyone is offended because I won't make my fiance ask them. We just told them TODAY that we're getting married and they barely got the congrats out before starting an argument about why we're not asking them.
If anyone's been in this horrible mess I'd really appreciate some advice!