I could really use some advice, all! I'm originally from Chicago (all of my family is still there) and my fiance is from Sault Ste. Marie, MI (in the U.P. where the vast majority of his family still lives). We are currently living together in the Detroit area (just about in the middle of the 2 areas) - so where do I get married?!?!? I haven't lived in Chicago for 6+ years and I'm worried that alot of my fiance's family and our friends from the U.P. won't make the extra long trip to Chicago (and vice versa if we did it up North). But i've heard that protocol is to have it in the brides hometown. Any advice or experience would be MUCH appreciated!