Okay, feelings between my dad and I are not the greatest. Due to some family problems, I prefer that he not walk me down the isle. He's not paying for the wedding so I don't really feel obligated to it. I was wondering what anyone thought about if I had one of my brothers (or both) walk me down the isle instead. Then when the officiant asks "who gives this bride away," mom and dad would stand and say "we do" or the whole family of four says "we do."any thoughts? there's just a lot of hard feelings between me and my dad, and i don't see it getting better before the wedding, or anytime in the near future.