I like to keep with some traditions and customs. How far does the tradition for the groom not to see the bride's dress go? Does that mean he shouldn't see her accessories either? Her shoes, veil, etc.? In other words, I have this beautiful bolero that I may or may not wear with my wedding dress. It was purchased along with the dress, specifically for the wedding. However, I might want to wear it with a simple black dress to jazz it up (for another formal event) before we get married. Do you think that would be taboo?