I am planning my wedding and my non existing father is actually excited about it.... I really dont want him to walk me down or have father/ daughter dance... He and my mom broke up when I was 14 and when he re-married he basically cut off my sisters and I and replaced us with my step moms kids...I think my mom deserve to have this honor she was the one who worked two jobs and busted her bum to give us everything we needed.I wanna tell him this but I dont wanna hurt his feelings. I want him to be there but I want my mom to walk me down and have that dance. She always been there for me. So confused.