So my dad (who doesn't even go to church, mind you) wants me to get married in a church, even though I have repeatedly stated that I do not wish to get married in a church. (My fiance supports me on this.) I can't seem to get through to them that, even if they're footing the bill, this is still OUR day. I'm willing to compromise on other things, but not this. For various reasons, I feel us getting married in a church would be hypocritical and insulting to people who actually go to church and believe in everything that goes with it. I am seething right now. I am seriously considering eloping if things don't get better.