This may seem like a silly question but I thought maybe someone would provide some insight. My fiance and I are getting married next weekend and we are staying in separate hotel rooms the night before the wedding. We have our rehearsal dinner that night and the original plan was to go to the hotel bar with the WP and have a drink and then go to our separate rooms. I have problems falling asleep without him and my solution was that he come and lay with me until I fall asleep and then he can leave to go to his own room. He is nervous that we are violating the tradition of seeing each other the night before the wedding, although technically it will be before midnight. So my question to you is... what is the "cut-off" time for the people who truly don't want to see each other the night before the wedding?