My dad has never been a big part of my life, he has never made an attempt to established any sort of relationship. Since my parents divorce he some how developed feelings, and now I am the one who doesn't want to establish a relationship. I feel like he should have made a better attempt when I actually needed a father figure rather than now when I am totally independent. I know I do NOT want him walking me down the isle because of our relationship and his unfaithfulness in his own marriage, but would it be almost like a stab in the back to have my mother walk me down the isle? Or would I be better doing it alone? What are your thoughts?