My fiancé and I are not very traditional people and we decided that we wanted to do something different for our wedding shower. We both want to be there and we want to invite married couples and have a smaller, more intimate celebration with our closes friends and family (maybe 30 people). We have been living together for almost 3 years now and really don’t have much to register for so we thought a smaller shower would be best. However, my mother and some of my bridesmaids are furious with this idea. They seem to think that I need to have a traditional shower for I will offend the older generation. I feel strongly against this and am not sure what to do. Any advice would be great!