My soon to be in laws have had a habit during this wedding planning time with saying they are going to pay for certian aspects of the wedding or cermony and then unexpectantly not paying at the time of deposit or payment.
Most recently, we went for suits for my fiance..His parents offered to pay but when it came time to cash out, they only paid for themselves.
Im not really sure what to do about this. Ive known my fiancee family for 10+ years. I dont think money is much of an issue. But Im frusterated by this flip flop of "Im paying..No your paying" deal beacuse in this most recent occasion, I was not prepared for that bill.
Should I just let it go? I feel if I question it, it can make for a akward situation or issues.