Everyone has their opinion of what I am doing my fiance & i have been together since high school, we have a 9 year old daughter but have finally decided to tie the knot. He is fun and pretty reserved, we both want a private ceremony with just IMMEDIATE family and a huge reception party. We are getting married at my church and having a reception that same evening with 150-200 people.....the question is what do i wear????? I have been looking at more formal bridesmaid dresses in ivory for both cost reasons and not to look silly in this big poufy gown.....Any ideas or thoughts on how to make this RECEPTION go smoothly I want it to feel like anyother reception directly after the ceremony....Am I asking too much??? Being too different???? PLEASE HELP!!!!