After booking a dj (he is included in our venue) and talking with my FI, I have decided I am petrified of this first dance situation. I don't dance and definitely don't want that much attention drawn to us. True, its our day and I want people to enjoy it, but do I really need to have the dance? He doesn't seemed to bothered by it, and our dj offered to ask guests to join, but I am still not sure.
Since our receptions starts at noon, would it be so horrible to just welcome guests to venue, feed them, and let them dance at will?