My family is out of the picture and arn't attending the wedding. My FIL is going to walk me down the aisle so thats taken care of, but what about the father-daughter dance. I don't want to take away the mother-son dance from my FI- is it ok to just have the mother-son dance and no father-daughter dance? His dad is 83 years old and I don't want more attention on the fact that my family isn't there.