I am having a tough time figuring my colors out for the wedding. I am not creative at all and wish to have a really classic-traditional wedding theme. My FI will swing either way between choosing red(like apple red) or dark blue, and then black and ivory. My two concerns are: 1) Both my sisters had very pink weddings. I do not wish to follow in their footsteps, so going with red would be doing that in my eyes...2) BUT I am concerned if I do a dark blue, and have blue coordinations with that, it will look like a "bruise" themed wedding. I want the bridesmaids to wear black, so having so much black and blue...well you get the idea...Two more things a long that line: I am thinking that my bridesmaids can go and pick their own LBD with several considerations like length, etc. Has this worked well for anyone? And flower girl: To wear white or not? I would prefer if she was in a color, but a little black dress on a little girl(age 5) looks kind of gruesome...HELP please! ANY ides would be appreciated!!!!